The Real, Relatable Love 21 Day Challenge

Discover How to Release Toxic Relationships, Heal Your Self-Image  and Love Yourself Deeper in 21 Days or Less 


Heal At Your Own Pace with our Self-Guided Classes

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Have you ever wondered why certain events or people trigger you?

Do you struggle with speaking your truth?

Do you have difficulty maintaining your success, happiness or financial abundance?

Do you have the confidence to create what you desire?


Are you living your best life?


Are your past memories and experiences holding you back from what you deserve?

Are you feeling stuck or frustrated by the lack of results showing up in your life?


Are you tired of re-living the same year, same relationships, same financial status over and over again?


Do you want to have a different life, but don't know where to start or how to create it?


If you're used to feeling like everyone else’s needs come first...

If you've forgotten what it's like to do things for yourself, and just for yourself...

If you're always the person people can depend on, but you can't seem to depend on anyone...


It's time to put yourself first, love.


When you are giving from a cup that is half full--or even empty--every time you give to someone else, you are simultaneously pulling and taking from yourself.  In this busy world that we live in, it can be so easy to forget to take a little extra time to care for yourself when we are focused on meeting the expectations of others.


Many of us are high-powered executives and CEO's, mothers and grandmothers, and powerful leaders of our family, our businesses and our community. But if we cannot lead ourselves first through our ability to prioritize our mental, emotional and physical health and well-being--nothing we do for others will be sustainable. 


One of the best ways we can refill our cups, restore our joy and peace and reinvent our lives is through intentionally and powerfully putting ourselves FIRST. 


Choosing YOU first is not selfish, it is a decision and a commitment to YOU, a commitment to honoring your feelings, to loving yourself where you are, and to choosing the relationships and partnerships that align with your personal needs and desires. 


Choosing YOU first is making a decision to heal those parts of you that cause you to look to other people, places and things for your joy...
Choosing YOU first is making a decision to identify and innerstand your needs and wants and ask for support without shame or fear...
Choosing YOU first is making a decision to no longer shrink, diminish or silence yourself when your spirit is calling you to show up powerfully in your life.


The time has come for you to activate your power. Are you ready to take the journey? If so, browse this Academy to find the class or membership that resonates with you. If you need support with finding a class, or have a question, please text "love" to 704-270-6598, subscribe and feel free to send us your questions or comments.


Meet the Founder of Her First Healing Academy

Malane Shani has over 30 years of experience in Relationship and Life Coaching and Women's Empowerment. She is guided by a simple but powerful mission to support women in fearlessly and unapologetically putting themselves first.

Malane Shani
Relationship and Life Coach

Malane Shani is guided by a simple but powerful mission to help people heal themselves and their relationships from the inside out.


As a personal life coach, couples therapist, author, speaker, and entrepreneur, Malane is a powerhouse motivator and sacred space who has helped thousands of people transform their lives, their businesses, and their relationships by identifying the hurt within and removing it at the root. Under Malane’s authentic, holistic guidance, she helps people take an honest look at their personal traumas and apply solutions that bring lasting healing and empowerment.



For more than 30 years, “Goddess M” has served as a Professional Life and Relationship Coach certified through the World Coach Institute. She is the author of the unique book and inspirational card deck “One Lesson Away” and the creator of other products designed to help her followers along their own self-propelled journeys to greatness.


Praise for Her First Healing Academy

"During the I Am Manifestation 21 Day Challenge, I cleared and released the false sense of duty I had been laboring under for over 49 years. I cleared and released the superwoman syndrome. I am not a superwoman. I hurt, I have fears, I struggle, I have pain, I get lost like everybody else. As awesome as I am, I am not superwoman. And finally, I cleared and released the ways I hide my true feelings and my true self and how I make myself smaller so that others can feel comfortable. 


I am so happy that I have released the bondages of the past. Happy that I have forgiven myself for not showing up for myself. Happy that I can BE me- the vulnerable, truth-telling, quirky, silly, and fun-loving me. I am so happy that I am free from being responsible for anyone but myself. Happy that I am showing up for me and going after my dreams. I am free.


To Malane, thank you for such a beautiful 21 days. I am SO grateful."


- Lynn S.

"Having a safe space to learn, listen and share, the Her First Academy has helped me to accept my past for where it stands, grow where I am and evolve to have better relationships going forward. This is an awesome personal development school that has helped me to unapologetically be me, learn how to speak my truth and take responsibility of my healing.


I know now that everything begins and ends with me. I would be the individual who allows my emotions to get ahead and when triggered to immediately shut down or withdraw but I learn the importance of not becoming attached so suddenly and to uncloak myself. I highly recommend Her First Academy to anyone who wants to see improvement not only in their relationships but importantly within themselves."


- Shineka M.

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